Expression of Love

As we all sat in the restaurant to enjoy the birthday treat of a dear friend, I loved the way he expressed his love for his to be wife and so was her way of expressing love for her to be husband (my dear friend). Although they are Girlfriend- Boyfriend, but I think defining them with those words would be quite a weak thing for the extreme love they are in with each other. We are all awaiting for the wedding bells to ring for them. Being the youngest of the lot, they have something huge to teach us all –The commitment with loyalty and trust! Commitment a word which is a reason of fear for the bravest of the brave, the strongest of the strong.


I may use the words girlfriend boyfriend for those who don’t know if they would actually get married, but at the moment it feels like they are made for each other. When two people know they like each other, but they still don’t know their own priorities in life. Ohk not diverting from the topic, as I see them, I realized there is not just one way to express love, but thousands of them.

Listing down few ways of expressing love which came to my mind:

Mutual respect: You respect your partner and their decision or suggestion plays a key role in decisions you take, however small or big they are.

Adoration: you love the way they are. You may adore their perfection or their imperfection. You may adore their command for respect or their love for nature. There may be no reason, but you still adore them.

Leg pulling love or Frustrating love: To constantly do something which you partner hate. And to ensure that your partner is watching you doing that. You constantly make fun of them, but nothing offends either of them, as it’s a way of expressing your love.

Giving up love: As one continuously frustrates other, either of them gives up. Giving up is not a sign of weakness, but a way of expressing your love.

Fighting Love: I hate to see you with another girl or you can’t tolerate to see me other guy. Well call it possessiveness or jealously or envy, the root cause of the problem is just the one, you love them. So to express it, all you do is to fight. Well that increases your love and never decreases.

Assertive love: you support each other to grow up the ladder in life, whether personal or professional. You motivate each other at the worst and best of the times. You wish to celebrate your success and failures with just them. And that’s assertive love.

Dignified love: You are proud to introduce them to your set of friends. You let her speak and allow her or him to grace the event, however small or big it may be. You honor them, for completing your life.

Hidden love: No one ever express it, neither to each other, nor to the world. A contended feeling in both the partners is nothing but love.

Freedom love: Giving each other the space they require, the freedom to live their life the way they want. The love should be the binding force for the commitment and not a reason to bind someone.

Public displayal of affection: Last but not the least, the public displayal of affection which I believe is the toughest way of expressing ones love as it takes lot of courage to project the love in the right way. And I believe it what proves that I don’t care about the world as you are world for me.




The one who was in your mind while reading all is the one whom you truly love, don’t hesitate to go and commit your love, who knows they may already like you too, but may be their way of expressing it was different from how you wanted them to do! As far as my dear friend and his love is concerned, it’s not one way , but they expressed their love in all possible ways and finally my friend’s to be wife declared “Didi, he never expresses his love”, to which we all laughed and said “because he likes someone else” to create a jealously feeling.